Let’s Talk Dating: Help! I Think The Guy I’m Dating Has A Wife!

Chattanooga-based Dating Expert Brock Olsen joins Gino D every Tuesday Afternoon at 5:30pm for Let’s Talk Dating.

Hits 96 Listeners email their dating and relationship scenarios and questions to gino@wdodradio.com and Brock gives his expert advice on the air.

Below is this week’s question and make sure to listen to Brock’s answer below…

Hey Brock,

I’m having a hard time with what to do next and need a little perspective or guidance from you and your followers. I have been seeing this great guy for the past few weeks and things have been moving slowly, which is just fine. We’ve gone on several dates and just recently he spent the night at my place. So a big step, right?

Anyway, I was admiring his watch that he had taken off and he told me, “thanks, my wife got it for me…” It was obvious by my reaction that I was NOT expecting to hear that, so then he quickly corrects himself and says, “sorry, my ex-wife…” and leaves it at that. I ask him to tell me more about this person whom I just found out about. And he says it’s not a big deal, he just slipped up, and explained that they had been separated for a while and just got a divorce earlier this year. Then he said that I was the first person that he’s seen since the divorce and not to worry.

I didn’t press him on it anymore, but now I’m freaking out that he’s still married and I’m “the other woman.” I tried looking him up on Instagram, but couldn’t find him (he told me already he’s not big on social media). So I’m torn. I want to believe him, because he checks all my boxes, but we don’t have enough time built up in our relationship for me to get a gauge on who he really is (does that make sense). Is this one of those cases where if it’s too good to be true, it probably is? My girlfriends are all telling me red flag, red flag, red flag! But could he be telling the truth? Help!!

-Samantha

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